life after 50, over 50, retirement, baby boomer women, baby boomersNow that I’ve been retired from my full-time job for about a year, I’m settling into a new lifestyle — sleeping later, exercising more, cooking and eating healthier, seeing my friends and meeting new friends, traveling to new places and working on my blog. I’m excited about the changes I’ve made in the past 12 months.

I think I’ll always be a work in progress. I still want to slow down more and gain greater focus and balance in my life.

“What are your goals for the next six months, one year, five years?” asked my coach Dr. F as I told her about my current challenges during my life after 50. “You should write down goals for all areas of your life – personal, health & wellness, work, financial. Having goals will help you achieve greater balance. You’ll know when to say ‘no’ to certain things and ‘yes’ to others.”

I thought about the goals I’ve achieved during the past six years since losing my spouse and how I’ve adapted to all the changes. I never wrote down my goals, I was too busy executing them. It was a high-stress period, but I did accomplish a great deal in a short amount of time.

♦ I bought my “condo on the corner” at the shore. I do love the beach.
♦ I met a new man online and now I have a great boyfriend L.
♦ I sold my house and moved into a townhouse.
♦ I helped launch my two adult children into their adult lives.
♦ I launched a new career as a blogger and retired from my 30 year corporate career.

Setting SMART Goals
As I head toward 60, perhaps it’s a good time to revisit my goals for the second half of my life. I should write down my goals like Dr. F says.

“Create SMART goals,” said Dr. F. “SMART goals are specific, measurable, reasonable, and have a timeframe. SMART goals help you move forward and are about what you want rather than what you don’t want.”

“Allow yourself guilt-free play each day,” said Dr. F. What’s that you say? Have fun each day? I can do that. Yes, I can. Yes, I can.

I liked what Dr. F suggested. It sounded positive and practical. Now I just have to do it. Can I do it? Can I? Can I? Ooh, ooh, ooh, I’m going to give it a shot. Here goes. Here are some of my SMART goals. One for each area of my life for the next year. I don’t want to go too far into the future.

♦ Personal: I want to travel to a new place. I can do this. Yes I can. I am going to San Jose, CA in July to the BlogHer conference. I’m going a day early to explore the city since I’ve never visited San Jose. Wow-o-wow, this goal is coming up next month! Can’t wait to see all my midlife blogger friends at BlogHer.

San Jose

Do you know the way to San Jose? I

♦ Health & Wellness: I want to practice yoga each weekday. I love yoga. It’s a great way to de-stress and focus my mind, body and spirit. I’ve studied mindfulness too, so on days when I cannot get to my yoga class I can meditate at home to calm my mind.

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Practicing yoga keeps me grounded.

♦ Work:I am going to write one chapter of my book each month. Is this achievable and realistic in addition to writing my blog? I’m going to keep close track of this goal and check on my progress in three months. That’s good. I included a timeframe.

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I want to write a book during my life after 50.

♦ Financial:I will live on a monthly budget that I have established for my expenses during my life after 50. This is a BIG goal. I’ll have to watch my spending. If I go over one month, I’ll have to be more careful the next. It’s easy to measure because the numbers in my checkbook will be my guide.

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Can I manage my pennies and live on a budget?

Ooh, ooh, ooh, I forgot to add my “guilt-free play for each day.” Ah yes, I am going to spend an hour each day reading The New York Times,a chick-lit novel, a magazine or anything I want to read. I’m going to have fun reading my fashion magazines.

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I am going to have fun reading my fashion magazines.

I like this goal-setting idea. What about you? Do you have goals for your life after 50?


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